God MONEY, the economy & being a Mistress.
Nine Inch Nails - Head Like a Hole
Okay, well then let’s talk about money. The economy is not so good, it sux for most everyone and still most guys think I am making money hand over fist or that I am rich or that if I am asking a $250 dollar tribute per hour then the assumption is that I am rolling in the cash. Let’s be real most financial slaves are phony time wasters. I do not do 40 hours a week in sessions and if I did I would be rich. ROTFL I make my living based on men who have expendable income and while some men have some “expendable income others do not. I have had many a discussion with guys who are pleased about the fact that I was in this because I was for real and it wasn’t all about the money for me and it’s not all about the money exactly. It was a matter of, I get to do what I love and what I am good at and I make money doing it but times are tough. RIGHT ?
I am not sure people really understand what’s on the back end of this business. I am doing everything. I do my own housework most of the time, although I am now blessed with a new houseboy. I have a dear friend who has been helping me with the web work, and I do almost all the office work, all the scheduling, and all the production. I am lucky to have such a great camera guy and editor. With my trying to get the production company off the ground I can only hope to get better at all of this. I would love to pay a web guy but the thing is I can’t. So we will see what happens with the web. I intend to improve my production and I have always had a real passion for BDSM I have never faked anything…. I can’t well okay maybe an orgasm here and there. heeee heeeee (kidding) I think all I really need right now is the moral support and some respect for sure. The world is changing and BDSM is at the forefront in terms of video production and the Internet. A kind of sexual revolution; I intend to contribute to that by doing more. It’s all very amateur right now but I kind of like that. I cannot compete with kink.com I mean they have a porn palace. Peter Ackworth owns a fucking city block. He uses porn stars…. I can understand why but it kind of freaks me out that some of these girls in the industry don’t even know how to use a whip. Kink.com is changing the industry of BDSM it is all about mixing BDSM and the sex. Now that is what’s happening and don’t get me wrong, it’s HOT. The thing to keep in mind is what is legal on video might not be legal in a live session. So there is a tight rope to walk. I held back on doing any video before for a reason. Now I feel it is a good time to go into production. It is difficult to balance my personal life with my pro-life; I have a family. And, I will say this…. Men should have some R E S P E C T…. Most people should really educate themselves about sado-masochism, and BDSM. There is an entire philosophy behind it THAT MATTERS.
It’s great that the world is filled with pervs but not all pervs have an understanding of BDSM. I find I have had to put up with a lot of bullshit and that has taught me quite a bit and with that I feel I can come from my heart and soul. BDSM is a way of life for some. This is my livelihood and it is my life and I have been very dedicated to this life.
We all work hard for our money and I cannot always meet with the expectations of the men who seek me out. It is not a perfect world. I am a Dominatrix. I am a Female Supremacist. Keep in mind, I have limits also; I do not do open mouth kissing and no I will not spoon you and I will not comply with your selfish needs. I do not need these so called slaves who call me asking me for full on pussy worship or to be ass fucked without suffering for me or working towards these kinds of rewards. Provoking the Mistress will get you nowhere with me nor will passive aggressive behavior, I will cut you off and or ban you from seeing me; you will be terminated. To be honest I have had it with the bullshit. For the masses: if you wish to serve me then get on your knees and serve me or go elsewhere. I have earned my position in life as a Mistress and I will continue to reign. Make no mistake about it. I have always succeeded as a Mistress. Let me be very clear…money is not something to be used against me in order to power trip me. It is not greed on my part. Your money is a tribute, a contribution. Your tributes help to pay my bills, pay my rent, and all of this money goes right back into my business. BDSM equipment is very expensive. It would be great if the majority of men understood all that goes into this business. Mistresses work very hard and so I ask for your continued patience as I hope to create some kick ass video and I hope to be able to produce a site where you can get more KINK and an education. Kink is for nerds…. Kinkster’s need a fetish community and perverts need to have a greater understanding of the women they serve. I intend to thrive in my community, as KINK is all I know and it is my LIFE.
Questions for you.
How can you contribute to your Mistress ?
Slaves who can’t afford it, what to do ?
If major corporations are going belly up isn’t it realistic to ask this question dungeon’s will they go out of business ?
Video is it all you can afford ?
There are many issues and many questions in terms of this topic and I feel like I am opening up a real can of worms here but hey why not talk about it. I mean it’s worth talking about.
Nine Inch Nails - Head Like a Hole
God money Ill do anything for you.
God money just tell me what you want me to.
God money nail me up against the wall.
God money dont want everything he wants it all.
No you cant take it
No you cant take it
No you cant take that away from me
No you cant take it
No you cant take it
No you cant take that away from me
Head like a hole.
Black as your soul.
Id rather die than give you control.
Head like a hole.
Black as your soul.
Id rather die than give you control.
Bow down before the one you serve.
Youre going to get what you deserve.
Bow down before the one you serve.
Youre going to get what you deserve.
God moneys not looking for the cure.
God moneys not concerned with the sick among the pure.
God money lets go dancing on the backs of the bruised.
God moneys not one to choose
No you cant take it
No you cant take it
No you cant take that away from me
No you cant take it
No you cant take it
No you cant take that away from me
Head like a hole.
Black as your soul.
Id rather die than give you control.
Head like a hole.
Black as your soul.
Id rather die than give you control.
Bow down before the one you serve.
Youre going to get what you deserve.
Bow down before the one you serve.
Youre going to get what you deserve.
Bow down before the one you serve.
Youre going to get what you deserve.
Bow down before the one you serve.
Youre going to get what you deserve.
Head like a hole.
Black as your soul.
Id rather die than give you control.
Head like a hole.
Black as your soul.
Id rather die than give you control.
Bow down before the one you serve.
Youre going to get what you deserve.
Bow down before the one you serve.
Youre going to get what you deserve.
You know who you are.
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Some very important things to consider.
1) A professional session requires a Mistress to have a dungeon space, wear very good and expensive clothing, use very good whips, cans, floggers, that cost a lot of money, and also utilize things such as plastic, rubber, latex, saran wrap, rubber gloves, and wear very expensive boots, shoes, etc. All of these costs are borne by the Mistress, who also has to pay utilities, dress, food, even provide music, etc.
So, how can these things be provided unless the Mistress charges a fee of up to two hundred to three hundred dollars an hour?
2. A slave can help a Mistress with media, web work, writing, general errands etc, but in order to don a leather catsuit, i assume that the Mistress, herself is expending up to 100 dollars per hour just to engage in play.
3. i think there is nothing wrong in providing a deposit and payments for scene, and if necessary, schedule a scene once every two months, versus once a month, book for two hours instead of four, and work with a Mistress.
4. i offer my writing talents to Mistress Simone, but i also respect Her enough not to assume that i am going to be chained at a desk doing so, it is up to the Mistress.
5. Adjusting the cables of a Mistress’ Home Entertainment Center is a labor of love, but one should expect that a Mistress is going don a pair of thirty to fifty dollar latex stockings, and strangle you while you are doing it. Ps, one hole in a latex pair of pants, and they are done, and those cost up to two hundred dollars.
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Edit, edit issues, check out my Number 5, i meant to say, DO NOT EXPECT A MISTRESS TO STRANGLE YOU WEARING LATEX STOCKINGS, WHILE YOU ARE JUST PERFORMING AN ERRAND. sorry
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This issue really strikes me back to the concept of property and service versus slave. If the Mistress is the owner then all wealth and monies should be the possession of the owner as the male is her property. A Mistress providing a service to any male needs to be compensated - as determined by the Mistress herself, or agreement between the owners Mistress and the professional Mistress.
No doubt at all that the services of a Professional Mistress are highly specialized and require a large monetary and time commitment. Many times it is impossible to have any interaction with a Professional Mistres without paying in some way.
No mistress lives to serve men - even if she gets great enjoyment from her job. The Professional Mistress chooses (thankfully) to specalize in this area to pay the bill’s, and any enjoyment the Mistress takes from the process is probably mostly because she knows it is helping the men grow into a better person. The client walks away from the session with potentially lifelong lessons which are priceless.
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That said, I am going to make a simple request. All of my slaves, my loyal subjects you must make some kind of contribution and a real effort to book a live session, especially if you live or if you are visiting the bay area. I am making all the necessary efforts to create a video production company with no real working capitol, I need the support and I need it now. So however you can be of service I ask that you please make more of an effort. Your loyalties and submission is also greatly appreciated and respected as submission is truly a gift. I suppose I should make a christmas wish list. (smiles)
With Grace and Gratitude,
Mistress Simone Kross
p.s. i have one secret wish and that is….I wish I could keep all of you in chastity. ooooooh and plugged. how exciting a thought uhmmmmm
More thoughts please it is really wonderful to know your perspective. Especially since our greatest sex organ is our brain.
I am thrilled to know that some of you have the ability to convey your true feelings regarding slavery and that it is so “right on.”
Keep it up ….
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love reign on me…did you have a point to make here ? if so make it.
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The internet is great, but is no substitute for the real thing. Touch, contact, intimacy, if only for a few moments wins hands down over anything virtual in my opinion. Feeling someones breath on the back of your neck, hearing footsteps upon a hardwood floor, or simply looking into another’s eyes isn’t to be found in the streams of bits flowing thru cyberspace.
The internet must be served, but it seems that there continues to be room for the up close and personal touch.
I think it ultimately comes down to your interests and how you see yourself moving forward in your client interactions and what you feel is the best use of your time.
Warm regards…
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I think there are different levels of devotion for a Mistress depending on a variety of circumstances and characteristics of a submissive. For a novice submissive he may not be sure what he is looking for and how much power he is willing to exchange and what services he is willing to provide his Mistress. For a more seasoned submissive there may be other factors that limit his servitude, such as job requirements, relationships and difficult financial circumstances.
It is also important to look at the psychology of the submissive. A submissive man is enthusiastic about giving and having his power taken from him by a qualified Mistress. We may say that he has an appetite for surrender. Importantly, just like any appetite, it varies from person to person. So some man are more eager to surrender than others. Those who are most eager to surrender shall be called slaves. Those who are less eager to surrender shall be called clients. A mistress is an ideal and a slave is an ideal. The mistress is obsessed with taking power from the slave and the slave is obsessed with having that power taken. Professional mistresses such as Simone Kross embody the ideal and certain slaves also embody the ideal. The reason why clients are more “selfish,” than slaves is because clients are less eager to have power exchange. Take an anology. A man who truly loves cars will sacrifice enormously to have his ideal car. A man who has less of a fascination with cars will sacrifice accordingly. That being said clients can still be respectful, appreciative, and giving to their mistress. I have noticed in my personal experience that the more a mistress embodies the ideal the more I come closer to being a slave. But of course I’m still more of a client.